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I am a gay man in a long term, monogamous relationship. I have never received anal sex before my current boyfriend, and have been extremely safe (cond. Severe abdominal and rectal pains after sex? after having plain typical sex. Last sat, after going to 4 I had sex with my boyfriend and the pain came on after. Hello! I had anal sex about a week ago. I had little pain and discomfort, but it is always so. Usually after anal sex I have some small anal fissures, but they.
The pain usually lasts for about 15 minutes, and then just goes away pretty quickly. Try pressing a finger in the region of the pain. Lube is your best friend in any sexual situation, but because the rectum doesn't self-lubricate in the same way the vagina does, it's especially crucial for all things butt. I have had this for years It think it's helped and 2 weeks later it only flares up times a day for a few minutes but I could do without it. Goroll AH, et al.
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My husband has complainted about this bad throbbing pain in the anus after we had sex, he belives that the orgasm was so intense that the pressure caused it. I told him he needed to get check but he doesn't belive is something. Sexual conditions 52 Replies. My first guess is prostate cancer, but he does seem young for that. Thanks for your suggestion I know this are some the simptoms and I don't think he has any of this below: A need to urinate frequently, especially at night;Difficulty starting urination or holding back urine;Weak or interrupted flow of urine;Painful or burning urination;Difficulty in having an erection;Painful ejaculation;Blood in urine or semen; orFrequent pain or stiffness in the lower back, hips, or upper thighs.
Is just that pain, even thought I have noticed that if we drink the same amount of water he can go to the bathroom more often that me, I just tought he had a smaller bladder than me since he doesnt have pain during urination. You could get some medical diagrams of the male interior anatomy to try and figure out which internal part of the body the pain is located in.
I had the same problem. Could be a condition known as "proctalgia fugax", or possibly "levator ani", both harmless in themselves, but annoying. I've had this for decades, though it's gottenbetter as I've gotten older. There is no treatment as far as I'm aware. Your best bet is to have him consult his doctor to make sure there's nothing elseis going on e. For what it's worth, I've found that squatting down on my heels by the side of the bed helps the pain to subside. Since I live inSan Francisco, they tell me this isn't even close to the weirdest thing they've everheard of Everything I see about this is related to men, but I get the same issue I'm a 24 year old female.
To the women with the question I have gotten this also ocassionally I also get sharp pain in the rectum at times like a stabbing along with ocassional mucus I am awaiting a colonscopy to rule outother things but was told it could be proctitis Seems to go away when I walk around or sit up.
Horrible feeling though while it lasts. Hello I am a female and I also get this sometimes after sex or after a bowel movement. I find I have to walk around or just patiently wait for it to subside. It has brought me to tears at times. I've been paranoid it cancer or something. I just feel better knowing other people have this as well - I just wish I knew what it was. I hope you are able to see this reply i. I have had this for years It used to happen to me whenever I would sleep with my right leg resting on my left leg, curled up.
The only way I have been able to stop the pain almost instantly without waiting for it to subside is by putting direct pressure on it like sitting on a hard surface. Almost like squeezing the blood out of it which has led me to believe it is some sort of internal hemmrhoid.
That is all I can think of. I have no cancer and have had a clean colonoscopy recently. I had a couple of polyps but I do not know if they caused any pain. I would say that when you experience it, sit on something really hard like the edge of the toilet seat and after it stops for at least a few minutes then get up.
I have gotten up too quickly and it comes back. I had an anal fissure tear in rectum because I went on a high fiber diet There are 2 muscles in the rectum. This muscle can cramp and spazm due to pain of go into a cramp and it makes going to the toilet painful while it is cramped due to the fact that it is closed tightly.
I was given a compound that when applied allows the muscle to relaxe and the pain goes away. Over time it sorted itself out. When it is cramped, go for an exam and the doc will know if it is that or something else that is the problem. Has anyone figured this out?.. I have a very similar problem.. I tend to notice it when I orgasm more than once in a day, or one night after another. About 10 minutes after ejaculation, I can feel a slow growing pain near my rectum.. The pain usually grows to be pretty instense.
To a point where I'm really unable to take it and sometimes can't do anything but lay there in pain. When this first started happening, I would sit on the toilet thinking I had to crap, but nothing would happen.
The pain usually lasts for about 15 minutes, and then just goes away pretty quickly. It seems to help if I hold a warm wash cloth between by rectum and balls. Or if I massage that area, that also helps a bit. But I want to know if this is just going to continue forever? I haven't asked my doctor about it yet.
I'm only 31, so I'm hoping there isn't some kind of prostate cancer already developing.. I have he same problem. I reported to my doctor and he didn't think it was a serious problem. I received colon exams and check and everything came back normal. I found out that by putting pressure on the area it relive the pain. I decided to purchase a butt plug and use it. It was a great help, no pain while using it.
No, I am not gay. This may help your husband. You can insert it for him or let him insert it during foreplay. I'm a 37 year old man and have been suffering from many of the same symptoms as all the men and women since I was 19 years old. In the beginning I saw a specialist to thoroughly check my prostrate and everything came back normal.
Turek explained that he see's many males in his office for the same issue's as all of us, but has a explanation for a cure. We finally came to the conclusion that this problem is more than likely a muscle spasm or a nerve issue.
I know he was right. He started me on a 12 month study of a very minor anti-depressant to control the muscle and nerves. I decided to start weaning myself off the medication. It took another several months until I was pain free. I was prescribed Citalopram. I weaned myself off of the medicine and haven't taken it for about a year, however the pain has slowly started to return.
I will go back on the medicine today and see if it works again. Read my posting I am a girl wasn't always and have the same problem. It started when I was 44, am now I have "quit" sex all together as the result after is too unbearable. I believe it is a muscle spasm, and mentioned it to my chiropractor. He seemed uncomfortable about it and attributed it to my lower back problems. It does seem connected sensation-wise. I just tried again today and same thing, although not as severe, even though my back is fixed.
I tried an enema but only temporary relief. I also considered that the spasms were caused by over working a muscle that, lets face it at my age, doesn't get very used. My partner misses sex, and so do I. Oh, well, back to abstainance I guess. Ok, I am not a doctor but have seen one for this same problem, since I started getting the same pains. He said it was the contraction or tensing or the rectal muscles.
Some night I would be sound asleep and the pain would wake me up. I would try different things to calm the pain even tylenol and nothing until I said, since it is a muscle and it is tense so I need to relax the muscle and I tries a piece of ice, I know it sound weird, but it worked and I would do the same every tiem I got the pain but it was unconfortable since the ice would melt and wet the bed so one day I tried rubbing vicks and Ureka!!
I believe you may also try other ointments that relax muscles but I have sticked to Vicks. Hope this helps you as it has helped me and stop the sleepness nights. A moderator will review your post and it will be live within the next 24 hours.
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